“Why I Donate”

Check out mentor Kathleen’s heartfelt testimony on why she chose to join our recurring donor club, the FFY Besties. She shares how her ongoing support not only strengthens the Friends for Youth community but also deepens her connection to the mission, making a lasting impact on the lives of the youth we serve.

Mentor & FFY Bestie Kathleen 

When I first stumbled upon Friends for Youth, I was in the process of exploring foster parenting and came across the organization on a resource site. It felt like a perfect fit right from the start. I became a mentor because I wanted to contribute something meaningful. And now, after spending time with mentee, Genesis, and being a part of the Friends for Youth community, I can truly say that I feel valuable. Knowing that I’m making a difference in her life gives me a greater sense of value in my own life. 

The decision to become a recurring donor was a natural next step. Friends for Youth aligns so closely with my personal values that it made sense to align my financial contributions as well. Initially, I considered sponsoring or making periodic donations, but after talking with Cecilia, I learned that recurring donations have a more lasting impact. They help provide stability and flexibility, ensuring that Friends for Youth can continue to grow and adapt.

What I love most about Friends for Youth is how it feels—small, intimate, and personal. I don’t get lost in a crowd here, and I feel like I can really make an impact. Unlike other organizations, where galas and fundraising events sometimes feel more like competitions, Friends for Youth’s is different. I trust this organization and believe that my contributions are truly making a difference. The demographic they serve, the underserved communities, is crucial. These are kids and families who might otherwise fall through the cracks, and everyone needs help.

I often think about what I want my legacy to be, and a big part of that is knowing that I’ve helped society move forward. When I look back on my life, I want to be able to say that I made a difference, and Friends for Youth helps me do just that. Material things don’t matter in the end—it’s the relationships we create that truly count, and Friends for Youth is all about building those relationships. 

To anyone considering becoming both a mentor and a recurring donor, my advice is simple: if it’s worth your time, it’s worth your money. I’ve chosen to consolidate my charitable giving by focusing on Friends for Youth because I believe in the work they’re doing. As a mentor, you’re giving your care and time, but as a donor, the impact is multiplied. The value for your contribution is incredibly high, so if you’re going to donate anywhere, make it Friends for Youth.